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Happy Better Yourself Friday!🌟 Welcome to the month of October where we have yet another opportunity to explore, new lessons and growth. This month, we’re diving deep into a topic that can sometimes sting but also has the potential to shape us the most: failure and setbacks.

We have all been there. Maybe it was a tough exam result, a job application that didn’t land, or even a personal goal that slipped through. In the moment, it can feel heavy, like the end of the road. But here’s the truth, failure is not the opposite of success. It’s part of the journey. 🚀

Failure is like a GPS recalculating your route. It doesn’t mean you’ll never reach your destination, it’s just pointing you in a new direction. Some of the world’s most inspiring figures such as Oprah, Steve Jobs, J.K. Rowling faced rejection and setbacks long before they achieved success. What made the difference? They didn’t let failure define them. They used it as fuel to refine their vision and keep going.

This is how you can do the same, reflect and don’t regret. Instead of replaying the mistake over and over, ask: What did this teach me? What can I try differently next time? Reflection builds resilience. Secondly, detach self-worth from outcomes. You are not your grades, your job title, or your rejections. Failing at something doesn’t make you a failure. Remember, your worth comes from who you are, not what went wrong.

Lastly, reframe setbacks as stepping stones. Each stumble sharpens your skills, grows your patience, and toughens your mindset. Every “no” brings you closer to the “yes” that matters most. Failure hurts, but it’s also proof that you’re trying, learning, and stretching beyond your comfort zone. Don’t fear the stumble, embrace it because every step, even the messy ones, is progress.💪

So without further ado, here’s another installment of Better Yourself Friday

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Redefining Failure: How to Overcome Setbacks

Setbacks aren’t failures, they are chances to reset and grow. Don’t dwell on mistakes, instead forgive yourself and move forward. Focus on future goals and use setbacks as fuel, not obstacles.

Avoid avoidance, this means you should recognise small defeats and learn from them. Adjust your strategies fast rather than sticking stubbornly to a failing plan. By seeing each challenge as a lesson in disguise, you build resilience, clarity, and a stronger path ahead.

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