Hey There 👋 

Happy Better Yourself Friday! 🎉 By now, January is in full swing. The excitement of the new year may have settled, routines are kicking in, and reality is gently tapping on the shoulder. That is actually a good thing if you ask me. This week, we are checking in on something we have been touching on this month, self-awareness. Because before you chase your goals, opportunities, or titles, it helps to understand who you are, what matters to you, and why you’re doing what you’re doing.

By understanding your strengths, values, and triggers, you are more likely to make better decisions that feel aligned instead of forced. That is where self-determination steps in. Once you have aligned with who you are, it becomes easier to chose paths that make sense to you. Moreover, you can set goals that feel motivating, not draining and you can own your journey without constant comparison. Remember, it is not about having everything figured out, rather it is about being honest with yourself as you grow.

It is okay if your 2026 plans don’t look flashy or perfectly mapped out yet. Growth can be slow, quiet, and still incredibly meaningful. As you move through the rest of January, try to lead with curiosity instead of judgement. You are learning, evolving, and becoming, that’s more than enough. 💙 Wishing you a grounded and an intentional weekend ahead.

So without further ado, here’s another installment of Better Yourself Friday

Let's Gerrit!

💡 Great Tips for Mahala

Why comparing yourself to others is the WORST (and BEST) thing you can do

It’s also worth remembering that comparison can be tricky. Sometimes it pushes us to grow, learn, and aim higher and other times, it quietly steals our confidence. The difference lies in how we compare. When comparison helps you understand what you value or what inspires you, it can be seen as useful. When it makes you doubt your worth, it’s time to pause and refocus on your own journey.

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